What Is It About Men....?

I am almost 18 years old, and I have to admit, I don't know much more about men than I did when I was 14.....10....or 6, when the little boys would push me down on the playground and call me "pie face". It's not because I haven't had enough experiance in dealing with them or anything like that, it's because the issues I have with them haven't changed much since I was 14....10....and 6. At 10, the boys weren't pushing me down (because by then, it's considered assault, lol) but they were still heavy on the name calling. Then, at 14, I couldn't get them to call me names or, call me at ALL. I had gotten to that phase when boys were trying to adjust from 8th grade to high school, and were still nervous about actually calling girls and not just MySpace messaging them. Now that I'm out of high school and transitioning to college, I'm realizing that guys...(young MEN at this point) are still the same, except now, they barely bother calling anymore. They're too cool for that. They'd much rather shoot a quick
"Waasssuupp maa?"
And assume that I'm going to fall for they're
(pImPdAdDy)
Text message signature.
Uhh....in the words of Keri Hilson, they're "turnin' me OFF", every last one of them.
I've also, recently caught onto a game that guys nowadays like to play called "send the same text to 7 different girls in my phonebook and see who falls for it".
It's pretty self explanatory. How did I catch onto this game, you ask?
Once upon a time I was chillin with some girls from school who I was cool with, and THREE of us received the same text message from the same ONE guy. It read:
"Wassssuuupp sexy. im tryna chill w/yuu 2nite. yuu dwn?"
(iTaInTtRiCkiniFuGoTiT)
He hadn't even bothered changing his wording of the message. The sad thing is, one of the girls actually responded, just happy that he had bothered texting her.
But, I, on the other hand decided to go a more sarcastic route, as always:
"it is trickin, cus you DONT got it. && hell no i dont. why dont u ask some1 else? oh wait u alrdy did...."
(fxck.off.)
And, well, that was the end of that.
The point is, guys aren't slow. They lack a little common sense at times, yes, but they know that sending the same flirty text to 7 different friends isn't very gentleman-like. And it's surely not a way to find a worthwhile kind of chick. They know that if they just called us up from time to time, instead of just shooting us a "Hey baby, hows your day going?" text message, they could make our day. Guys have to know, that all it takes is a little extra thought to make us ladies happy. I mean, I don't understand their logic.
Guys + some extra thought= happy girlfriend/lady-friend.
Guys - extra thought - thought all together= pissed off girlfriend/lady friend.
HELLO?! It's so simple...
They say that women are hard to please, and YES, I'll admit it, we're complex as hell, but as long as guys understand the simple things like calling on our first day at a new job to see how it went, coming to visit us on our birthday, REMEMBERING our birthday, maybe even shooting us quick "GOOD MORNING BABY" text messages, so we can wake up and smile a little bit, we're basically satisfied. Or at least, happy. And would it be too much to ask if they just responded to our texts every now and then? Returned our calls? We just care about ya'll and when you guys don't respond or bother to call back, it makes us feel like you don't care about us.
And if you DON'T care about us, can you not lead us on and make us think you do?
I've spoken with soo many male friends of mine, who openly admit to knowing all the right things to do, when it comes to ladies, but just not doing them, because they don't feel like it.
....
Oh COME ON GUYS! Stop watching 50 Cent videos, he may look like he's got a million females fawning over him, but actually, he's just got a whole lot of females fawning over his money. And half of the guys trying to copy his cool ways, don't have any money and need to find them a worthy female and stop chasing bitties. Haha.
But anyway, back to my point.
Of all the guys I've dealt with, in some way or another they all had the same faults. Just, a lack of thought when it came to our relationship. And no, I'm not one of those girls with "man problems" or anything like that, but a little thought would really go a long way, guys.
Really.
And everytime I talk to other ladies, from my 8 year old sister, to my 30 year old friend, whose like a sister to me, we all have damn near the same issues with them.
Ahh, guys, is it too much to ask for a little thought?
And this is soo not meant for the men, who actually DO do the right things.
Just the boys who refuse to man-up and put some effort into their relationships! Haha.
I'm just being honest. Hope it doesn't offend anyone.
:)
Peace, LOVE, && the pursuit of MR.RIGHT (&& maybe a few sexy Mr.Right Nows hehe)

(Chace Crawfordd is 100% my Mr.Right Now, haa!)
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